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A bisexual guy who is into strapon m/f sex or pegging. I am also into crossdressing and erotic art.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

The 3 S's of first time strapon sex: small, slow, and sloppy

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Hi there. As you can probably tell this is a blog about strapon sex, specifically strapon sex between a female top and a male bottom. 
If you are not aware of what strapon sex is I suggest you check out the wikipedia entry on the subject.
I have decided to address first time couples out there about having good experience as the subject of my first blog.
I call them the 3 S's. Small, slow and sloppy.

First small: After watching a lot of porn I think its only normal to think you want a large or even average size dildo for your back door, but I suggest resisting that urge and picking one that is smaller. Look at it this way you can always go bigger later on and you are much more likely to have a good first experience if you are in pain or sore after or during your maiden voyage. 

Second slow: Go slooooooowwwww. No need to rush. Set aside a long uninterrupted evening and ease into the ride. It may even take a few tries to really get into it but it will be worth the effort. 

Third Sloppy. What I mean by sloppy is lube and lots of it. Take what ever you think you might need and double it and then add more. I am not kidding you can not have too much. Have lots of thick water based lube on had and keep applying it. Your ass does NOT self lubricate unlike the female Virgina. My preference is astroglide gel. I recommend staying away anything with spermicide, mint or that heats up. I have tried all of these and they are not conducive to a good anal sex experience.
Well that is my first post. Let me know what you think. 
Nick

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